What category do I fall in?
fuzz,
Try them with balsamic vinegar, outstanding.
Wow. Like a pot full of meadow you can serve individually, or by the dozen!!
2. normal
3. below average
4. normal
5. below average
6. below average
7. below average
8. normal
9. normal.
10. normal
11. normal
12. below average
By all indications – despite the above 50% spread – I deem you a normal citizen and can run for and hold any office, dance on the courthouse square, sleep on park benches, drive loaded Super Duty Trucks, date movie stars, hang out with drug addicts, burn the flag, dodge the draft, advise the president, preach in synagogues, be a deejay, strip for money, sing for your supper, fly a kite, tie the knot, skip a rope……..
I am not suggesting anyone is deviant. I said, "I think lowered trucks look gay” I’m not sure what happened with the "are" in that statement. I suppose it was an editing error. Sometimes I make occasional typos and for that I want to offer my sincerest apology. I can't imagine what it must be like to read a sentence with a superfluous word in the middle of it. I don't care what you do to your truck. You can paint it pink if you like. You can burn it if you like. You can put a propeller on the front if you like. You need to relax a little with grammatical policing professor. I wasn't submitting a dissertation before a board.
On this forum we take on just about any subject with gusto, but most refrain from remarks re others trucks - sacred ground.
If I relax any more, I'll fall asleep.
Dono
As for pro choice I guess I am in favor of it, although I wonder why anyone would choose to kill a baby. Maybe we should be able to take them out until they are about 18.lol
So there, you got it out of me. If you have any questions about it just ask. I will answer most questions about it.
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Bill in Miami.
Ford Trucks for Ford Truck Enthusiasts
And just for grins ask your homophobic men friends who they would rather hang with and I think that you will find most men homosocial ( that's my term thank you). Throw that at them and see what kind of a sputtering reaction you get from bubba as he chokes on his chew.
So there, you got it out of me. If you have any questions about it just ask. I will answer most questions about it.
respectfully, I would be interested in your answer if you have one to my earlier question regarding "admitting genetic truth" versus "changing one's mind".
I would like to hear your opinion. I give you my word I will treat it respectfully, whether I agree with it or not.
Everyone is either a Dem or a Republican? Everything in life is black or white, right or wrong?
Pick one or the other, this is a democracy damnit.
You're either a patriotic sycophant or a jew hating terrorist huh?
<<Ct, here I go again with the smart@#$>>
I would like to offer a thought to nibble on:
"When I was a kid I would sooner not eat than eat brussel sprouts. Seriously. I went to bed hungry enough times to WELL remember it as an adult. I DESPISED THEM.
Then one day, I discovered they were just Baby cabbages. I have loved cabbage as far back as I can remember ('specially with corned beef and potatoes!).
Now, they are a regular part of my diet. Of course, my roommate complains (after the fact), but I don't care.
Did I come out of the closet and "admit my genetic truth" or did I change my mind?"
FWIW.
Being gay is like hunger, not like the type of food you like. There is a difference. I think that realizing you are gay and "admitting your genetic truth" are two different things. Being gay is not genetic. My mom and dad are both straight.
I always knew that I was different than my friends and family. I hung around a group of guys were are very country and very homophobic. They talk pretty harshly against gay people, along with african americans and jewish people. Anyway, I knew in the back of my mind that I was gay, even though I never developed crushes on any of the guys I was friends with. As we got out of high school the yelling in the back of my mind that I was gay became too loud I couldn't hear anything else. I kept denying that I was. I kept looking in the mirror and telling myself, "I am not gay. . . .I am not a ******." "Please God no. . . Don't make me a ******." Well, that didn't work. I was gay. On Christmas Day in 2000, I finally admitted the truth that I was a gay man. The problem was that I didn't fit any of the stereotypes and thats all I knew. So I used the internet to get online and meet other country gay guys that shared alot of the same thoughts, feelings, interests, and lifestyles that I wanted to live. I learned that being gay is not who you are and no one is bound to any one stereotype because being who you are is the most important thing. I decided to be the "anti-gay man" and live life very much like a straight person would. I have managed to do that AND find another gay man who feels the same way I do about it. He and I are both teachers, me Science and him Math. We teach in the same district but not the same schools. The kids know about us and they aren't bothered by it because I dont make a big production about it. When you are a teacher you are a role model to kids and its very important for both my partner and myself to continue to be good role models despite our orientation. We are changing the stereotype of gay men to these kids. It's something we are both really proud of.
As for changing my mind. Since I have met my partner, I wouldn't change my mind about being gay. Do I want to be gay? **** no! Would I change my sexual orientation? **** no! I am very happy with my partner and we live a great life together. We have a good relationship and there is no bitching, no moaning, no PMS, we are best friends. I dont have to put up with any woman type games that drive men nuts. What would I change? I would change people perception of what being homosexual is all about and I would also change those people who are **** who make their sexual orientation who they are and flaunt it like its the most important thing in the whole wide world or those who make a political statement with it. People who do that are definitely short changing themselves because everybody is more than who they fall in love with. I hate that they make straight people cringe and expand the stereotype that all gay men are like them. Inappropriate content removed by admin. <!-- I also hate those stupid shows that portray gay men as cross dressers and girls with *****. --> I"ve never worn women's clothing and I don't act like a girl. There is nothing feminine about me. But, its not up to me since I don't run the world. That's God's job. Oh, by the way, that is another thing I hate. I hate that people think that I cannot believe in God just because I am gay. I have a stronger belief in God since I've accepted my sexual orientation. We all have the right to believe in God. Anyway, I really do think I was made this way because I had those feelings way back into my childhood. If I was not made that way, why were they there? It's not the devil because he does not influence me one bit.
So, in closing, I will not change my mind back to being straight. I did not change my mind to become gay. I just accepted the fact that I was and that it was a small part of me. So really, realizing your sexuality is a two step process. Step 1: Admitting to yourself your sexual truth and Step 2: Changing your mind about what that means to you.
Thanks for letting me express my opinion about this. Are there any other questions?
let me start by saying many thanks for your reply.
It's going to take me a while to digest what you have said as a whole, but I did notice a couple of things I find interesting already.
. . in no particular order . . .
A) You could have almost been describing any number of events in my life that have occurred *conceptually*. I am not and never have been gay.
B) "The problem was that I didn't fit any of the stereotypes and thats all I knew."
Man, this describes nearly every person I have ever known. Yea, there have been exceptions but not very danged many.
Again . . thanks.
P.S. I may like to call you back to the stand at a later date.
Remember; you are still under oath


