1. We do not monitor PMs. I'd rather watch grass grow than spend god knows how many hours a day reading the dozens (or more, not sure but there are 400K PMs in the system) of PMs sent daily through FTE. Putting 2+2 together doesn't take a rocket scientist or "monitoring" PMs.
2. Deliberately by-passing a filter: never a good idea. The system traps that.
3. Other resource links: allowed. This particular one: not allowed. The owner spammed FTE with over 300 links in his posts, then lied about it in a public cry me a river rant.