I'm offering this as a suggestion...
April 22nd is a Saturday, and I'd be happy to "host" an early summer FTE NJ Grill Party.
I'll provide the food (burgers, hot dogs, whatever) and you guys could bring beverages of your choosing. Beer, soda, wine and what not. I can load the coolers with ice no problem.
I'm located in Colonia, NJ, which is about 2 miles from the GSP exit 131, just north of where the NJ Turnpike (95) and the GSP cross each other. GSP exits are numbered as mile markers, so you're near the GSP you can easily calculate approximate mileage by subtracting your exit number from 131 (or vice versa).
Just an idea... I know I'm quite a bit north as compared to some of you...