oj its really starting to **** me off now..... i have to drive it like a standard and go to neutral when ever i stop....

heres a vid of what happens when i stop still in drive....right before it dies it kindof lurches forward as it i popped the clutch in a standard

F150 stalling - YouTube

so far i have cleaned the IAC valve and tested it as per the site above.

tranny fluid level is good. added a can of seafoam trans fix a few days ago to see if it would help... nothing.

removed the solenoid plug on the tranny and cleaned/re dielectric greased and plugged back in.

cut the P/Y wire for the TC lockup and fed the ecm side power with a 22k resistor in line as suggested. still same thing so removed resistor and hooked wire back together

it is a new filter and quakerstate atf in it now.

im at a loss right now any other suggestions!?!? or ideas??