Ok boughta oil cooler off e-bay but am having trouble tracking down the o-rings and the front and rear gaskets. Have the part numbers from ford but the web sites say they don't carry them. Anyone know where besides Ford? Thanks

 

Will this help?

Powerstrokeshop.com

 

Farm69's got a good link there, but here's another with the whole kit for one price.
94-97 Oil cooler complete reseal kit


Other than that, head for a navistar dealer and ask them for the oil cooler gaskets and o-rings from a T444E engine, and if you can get the serial number off your engine, that will only help to appease the parts counter monkey if he says "we don't sell Ford parts".