I would say lets meet at the same place, or I've seen talk of moving it around from time to time. I live in North Jersey.. so my opinion is naturally geared towards something up North. I'm thinking anything off Rt 80, 78 or on Rt 10, 22, 46 might be good options for most Northerners. Although Tom's River is a bit of a hike, it is pretty central to most people. I wonder how people handle these meetings in larger states? The Sunday at 12 noon deal seems to be a good constant.