heres the 09 5.4 xlt 4x4. did a little work to her. 99 % happy. not a fan of the front though..
sct x4 with 3 5 star custom tunes
flowmaster exhaust
k&n drop in
pioneer 4201 nex in dash with back up camera
2 12" kicker comp in a box under the rear seat
18x9 method race wheels NV machined
295/70/18 nitto ridge grapplers,
fox 2.0 rear shocks
bilstein 5100 adjustable front
camburg uniball UCA
and a few other extras.

personally, imo, the bilsteins were not worth it and i will be going to icon or fox coils soon. i understand people love them, i am not one. the fox rears are incredible and fixed any and every issue with the rear end.. the front on the other hand. now feels similar to my 96 f350. not at all what i was expecting or trying to achieve. i understand i have them at the top, and im asking for it to be a bad ride. ill own that, but will not recommend

other then that rant. i love the truck, just ran a 1000 mile trip to the grand canyon and she was flawless.

 

I agree a matte black Grille w/PTM Surround would be a HUGE improvement or considering how nice that Raptor Bumper looks, maybe get a A/M clone Raptor Grille to compliment the Bumper, so the color's match.... Happy Mod'n