i vote for may as well the 21st is fine with me (i havent cleared it with the wife but its not bow season so i know i am free ha ha) i can go about anywhere so i will let the others decide on where to hold it. you might want to consider some state parks (they have all the stuff to have a great cookout) there is coonskin in charleston and i am sure there are some up i79 more towards the geographic center of the state. i am on the western side of the state so i know i will have to travel so no big deal and i drive everyday for work so no biggie for me. i am assuming these are family events?