Id say do it. What have you got to lose nothing.. If you dont ask youve lost already. Ahh second choice it wouldnt worry me. Maybe that first guy was supposed to be so great but your really the one she wants. Have a good time treat her well an see what happens from there. Your just as good as the next guy. Hey and if it dont work out. Hey thats part off life move on try again. Dont let it get to you. Keep us posted on how you turn out.