The A4LD may have a poor reputation, but more than 95% of its problems come from abuse such as overheating, lack of maintenance, driving up hills grades with the torque converter unlocked, and running them low on fluid. The A4LD can handle a lot of torque is its basic operating principles are understood. The A4LD will also last a very long time if it is properly maintained.
You may very well have an electrical problem, but in order to advise you what the problem may be, could you give us a brief description of the transmissions maintenance history.