I have stopped 3 or 4 times the longest was 1 1/2 yrs. I to, like you Brenda had major stress. (first marriage) The bottom line is, every time I went back. I smoked more than before I stopped. Notice I never once said quit. I don't believe you ever actually quit. Be strong sweety. You can do it. I know I shouldn't be one to talk b/c I am still smoking BUT, I won't be for long. When I grow up, I wanna be just like you. Hows that for pressure? hehehe