Make sure you clean the connectors too. It may be possible to set the hard idle on the 4.0 (it's easy on the 5.0). Try this:
Run the throttle stop screw in several turns
Disconnect the idle bypass valve
start truck and adjust idle to desired setting with just the screw (make sure truck is warm and in close loop, thermostat will be open)
shut truck off and disconnect battery
reconnect idle bypass valve
after at least 10 minutes reconnect battery
start and drive the truck
What this will do is let the computer use the idle bypass for variances in idle and not rely on it to maintain the idle. Variances are compressor kicking on etc....
I have done this many times on a 5.0. It will work on any ford eec iv ro eec v that has a screw for a mechanical throttle adjustment.