I'm driving up to Johnstown next weekend to see my mom and my step-father(who is fighting stage four cancer), with my eldest daughter, son in law and two of the grandchildren.Your right Audie, you got to get the I Love You's in while you can. I told my step-father how important a role he played in me becoming the man that I am today. he discounted it but I had to tell him anyway, also his brother played a pivotal role in steering me straight, I thanked him too. Their old and sick and I felt compelled to let them know before either of them died that at least in one little instance they made a difference.