Thanks BB. I have changed the juice twice now 35 and 80K. The only time I know the light to flash is just a short while after starting, and goes away after a few minutes of flashing - driving down the road. As for the odometer it registers the mileage it seems as soon as the O\D light stops flashing.
No noise I can detect to be abnormal, and in terms of shifting I've noticed it to be a little more choppy than I like to feel, but not clucking or slamming. And seems to smooth out after runing for a little while. I always baby an automatic tranny by taking the rpm's down when I know it's going to shift but my wife just drives it normal.
The tranny fluid is also a little over the full mark. Would that have any impact?