Donald; that's prolly a smart plan to get there and out while the good stuff is still there; we will be there around 7'ish; stay a few hours. We basically go as a gtg more than gotta have shopping spree. (If your in and out quick you can still make church).
Roger; my wife only remember's having one birthday party as a child; I have given her acouple suprise parties; but usually just a few close friends and go to a sit down and eat place. I atleast wrap one present in b/day wrapping for her each year.