I've never run the boggers on the street, but I have run the TSL's on my daily driver. No issues and the tire wear was great. You can't even buy them anymore, but the brand new Buckshot mudders I bought lasted a whopping 6 months before they were completely bald. (I guess that's why you can't buy them anymore)
I think with your limited road use, you'd be fine with any tire you wanted. I've been wheeling for decades. I can't remember a single time I even tried to balance a tire bigger than 35". I never had a problem with vibration. Not that you could feel a vibration anyway on a 40"-44" tall mud tires with a cammed up engine. The truck shook like crazy regardless of tire balance.
....ah memories.