Just an FYI for anyone that has clicked on my thread hoping for answers. I found the culprit to be a bad connection at the wiring harness on the relay. It looks like the plastic housing has gotten hot and melted slightly around one of the 4 connectors and made the connection go bad. Might want to check that also when you are troubleshooting. I dont know if thats 100% of the problem I am thinking there are some underlying factors making the harness get that hot but for now its working.