thinking about asking a certain girl on a date,but don't know?
I have this girl that I know is interested in me I am not sure if I should ask her on a date cause I know I was her second choice. My friend,his girlfriend, and this girl are going to come to my house sometime this weekend for a fire and to hang out. She told my friend that she wanted me to ask her out on a date and he knows everything and he said go for it. I was just thinking about doing it and just having fun, but then my stupid pride gets ahold of me and I start thinking about being her second choice.So I just thought you guys could help me out by saying what you would do. Thanks for the help.
Well I would go for her and just have fun (even though you were her 2nd choice)
When I ask girls out for a 1st date.... I usually bring up shooting and ask if they have ever shot a gun/been shooting etc.
Regardless of their answer (usually no) I say "well I am going out to the range this weekend/tomorrow/etc, why dont you come along? Ill teach you how to shoot"
So far its worked 100% of the time
Plus if yall ever go for a 3rd 4th date you can play games like a kiss for a bullzeye lol
If you want to ask her out on a more formal date (dinner/etc) there isn't really an easy around taht...just gotta ask. I usually ask when they are really really stressed (and trying to find some time to relax)....I say something along the lines of "why dont we go out to someplace night tonight? It will give you a chance to relax and finally enjoy a night off"
So far it has worked pretty well...
good luck w/your girl...keep us posted
on edit: dont forget pictures...w/out pictures it didnt happen!
Id say do it. What have you got to lose nothing.. If you dont ask youve lost already. Ahh second choice it wouldnt worry me. Maybe that first guy was supposed to be so great but your really the one she wants. Have a good time treat her well an see what happens from there. Your just as good as the next guy. Hey and if it dont work out. Hey thats part off life move on try again. Dont let it get to you. Keep us posted on how you turn out.