Have you gone over to the NECO (new edge cougar owner's) forums at
www.newcougar.org? Lot's of us over there willing to help. Also look into the Contour Enthusiast Group, or CEG, at
www.contour.org.
As for what you are describing, we have seen it mostly with plug wires, but you do say that you have replaced those. Just to cover the bases, were they brand new wires? And were the plugs Double Platinum.
If yes to both, I have seen similar issues with bad downstream o2 sensor, but it definately threw an o2 code. Also has the same DPFE issues, but again threw an EGR insufficient flow code.
Definately check over in those forums, I have the same screen name on both. I am in the Mass/Conn NECO chapter, and New England CEG chapter. Though I haven't been on CEG in forever.