Try
www.jamesduff.com for the suspension lift.
> Are there any other "must do" things
A must do for me would be buy a TFI module and the tools to change it and keep it in the glove box.
Nice things to do:
Clean out the heater core/ac box and put a screen over the cowl fresh air inlet.
Take up the slack in the cable on the gas pedal.
R&R the front axle shafts, both sides, to make sure you can get the spindles off if you have to.
Replace the CVJ driveshaft with a UJ shaft.