The only catch to it all is that I have to wrap up some details, so I have to hang on for a while yet. But the mortgage and refi stuff was arranged by the estranged while I was stationed away and is killing me.
The refi especially was a bad thing - she cost me every last dime of equity I had in the place after more than ten years paying on it, and I'm pretty sure it is what she has been living on all this time.
Either way, if I can't hang on here, I need to clear the decks in case I have to move out.
Yes it's that bad. I'm deciding today just which two or three fishing rods I want to keep. I have about a truckload of everything from surf rods to crappie poles, and they never get used anymore.
If you fish - you might want to come on out and see what you like. There's a couple of casting nets around here too.
I don't want to lose the place, but the worst case scenario is exactly that. If I fail to raise enough cash to re-tranny my truck I think it's all going to go down the drain.