Hi! Welcome to FTE!
I have not seen any fenderwell exit headers for your truck with a 360. There are several out there for trucks converted to 460's but that's all I know of. If you're planning to put giant tires on your truck you won't want to go with a fenderwell exit header anyhow as they will rub, unless you use a 15"+ suspension lift to put the whole truck above those 49's, which will make it extremely tipsy.
I think the biggest "off the shelf" lift is the 4" by Skyjacker. If you're looking for more you'll probably need to get a hold of National Spring and have a set of custom springs built for it. If you have time visit the offroad forum and look into shackle flips and other alternatives for lift too. Extreme arch springs, often used in large lifts, are terrible for performance and ride, there are other alternatives which are more functional and sometimes less expensive. You'd also be well off to do a major fender trim to reduce the amount of lift you'll need.
Lastly, if you do plan to put 49" tires on your truck you will be looking at some major modifications and expense. I don't know if you want to get into that if you're not looking to spend much. Besides the $1800-$2000 you'll spend on tires you will have to buy different axles as the 49" tire will snap your stock axles like twigs, especially the front. A set of 2.5 ton Rockwells would be ideal but they'll run you $500 - $1000 each. It's not that it can't be done, but it will be a lot of money to make it happen.
Come browse the offroad forum to get more info:
http://www.ford-trucks.com/forums/forum63/