Kansas Chapter Join Chapter, Leader: Flip4ford

first time parent lessons for Justin and Jamie

  #151  
Old 02-02-2017, 02:36 PM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
Yeah it does!


Why is it that days at work drag on for what seems like an eternity, but time with the wife and family passes in a blink of an eye?
 
  #152  
Old 02-10-2017, 07:36 AM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
Do not put a hamster cage near its food and guard it with a mouse sticky trap--- just saying
 
  #153  
Old 02-10-2017, 08:45 AM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
Do not spend so much time making a living that you don't have time left over to make a life.


Spend the extra time with the kiddos.
 
  #154  
Old 02-10-2017, 08:58 PM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
Good Advice!!!!!!!!!!
 
  #155  
Old 02-13-2017, 11:57 AM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
When your child asks you about the trampoline, and when you are going to put it up for the year, and you happen to say, well... maybe this weekend.


That same child will remember that and hold you to it. Even if you say Maybe...


Guess What I was doing last night at 8pm?
 
  #156  
Old 02-13-2017, 05:14 PM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
GET OUT SELL THE KIDS!! BEING AN ADULT IS A TRAP!!!!
 
  #157  
Old 02-14-2017, 08:39 AM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
Watching your child struggle with grades, or sickness tears holes in your heart, but their happiness and laughter helps mend those holes.


Encourage them when you can, and try not to be too hard on them when you feel you should be. Often times they are beating themselves up as well.
 
  #158  
Old 07-26-2017, 07:54 AM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
I want to be a kid again!
 
  #159  
Old 07-26-2017, 07:55 AM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
Calista can't date till shes-- 40
 
  #160  
Old 07-26-2017, 08:07 AM
82'Stepside's Avatar
82'Stepside
82'Stepside is offline
Cargo Master
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Abilene, KS
Posts: 3,132
Received 17 Likes on 17 Posts
Mason is starting kindergarten in a few weeks, pretty nervous since he seems pretty "innocent" right now and thinks everybody else is awesome, nice, and wants to play with him. Unfortunately I know that he'll find that there are quite a few "mean" kids in this world (which you can't blame some of them with the environment their raised in) and I really hope they don't break his spirit. We will find out.....

On a side note, he LOVES Minecraft and it seems that every kid that he speaks to (even ones several years older) can hold a conversation about it for apparently hours. Now to just get him on automotive conversation, then he'll be in with an awesome crowd
 
  #161  
Old 07-26-2017, 09:20 AM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
We quasi inherited a car for Maddie from a co-worker, that doesn't run. I know its got several issues, but overall its in pretty good shape. I am not saying I refuse to turn a wrench on it, but I have explained to Maddie that she is the one that is going to be working on it, and I will be there with her to tell her what steps to do. She is really excited about that. Once she gets it running, she is going to swap on a spare tire, then swap it back as a lesson.
 
  #162  
Old 07-26-2017, 10:03 AM
82'Stepside's Avatar
82'Stepside
82'Stepside is offline
Cargo Master
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Abilene, KS
Posts: 3,132
Received 17 Likes on 17 Posts
That should be a great experience for her, teaches her how complicated and complex a motor vehicle is and how much work it takes to maintain one. Mason helped with his first oil change on the TJ, hoping to do spark plugs with him when the weather cools down a bit. Ultimately I'm hoping to find a late 60's Mustang or 70s Chevy pickup to restore with the boys in 5 years when they get a little older and the basement is finished and frees up funds.

My neighbor's son is starting his senior year of high school and his parents asked me advice on buying a used, starter car (they've never bought something like that before) so I found a 2000 GMC 1500 pickup that seemed to fit the bill perfectly. They checked it out and like it so they bought it and drove it home, now it's leaking coolant due to a busted\leaky heater core inlet. Kid was really bummed but I explained to him how just about every vehicle I've bought has came with similar issues and after you fix you'll feel good about the purchase again.
 
  #163  
Old 07-26-2017, 03:27 PM
Garden Spyder's Avatar
Garden Spyder
Garden Spyder is offline
Hotshot
Thread Starter
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Manhattan Kansas
Posts: 17,490
Received 53 Likes on 51 Posts
There are YouTube videos galore on fixing just those exact kinds of issues. Mom and Dad's 82 6.2 L diesel pickup always leaked at the heater core, even after it was replaced. I wasn't allowed to pull it apart and find out why, so it just typically smelled like antifreeze in the cab, but otherwise it was just dandy!!
 
  #164  
Old 07-26-2017, 04:44 PM
82'Stepside's Avatar
82'Stepside
82'Stepside is offline
Cargo Master
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Abilene, KS
Posts: 3,132
Received 17 Likes on 17 Posts
Originally Posted by Garden Spyder
There are YouTube videos galore on fixing just those exact kinds of issues. Mom and Dad's 82 6.2 L diesel pickup always leaked at the heater core, even after it was replaced. I wasn't allowed to pull it apart and find out why, so it just typically smelled like antifreeze in the cab, but otherwise it was just dandy!!
His issue is that it snapped clean off at the heater core inlet, on the firewall side. Like the inlet nipple was busted off in the hose, and the heater core was snapped off flush. He was supposed to get it fixed today, curious on whether they could mend it or have to replace the whole assembly.....
 
  #165  
Old 07-27-2017, 03:40 AM
Flip4ford's Avatar
Flip4ford
Flip4ford is offline
FTE Chapter Leader
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Newton America :-P
Posts: 18,939
Received 105 Likes on 99 Posts
So what kind of car did maddie get?
 

Thread Tools
Search this Thread
Quick Reply: first time parent lessons for Justin and Jamie



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:39 PM.